So love. The first thing to address is "at first sight." Now I know you will probably get mad at me for saying this, but I don't really believe in love at first sight. I do think that it would be extrememly romantic, but most of the time I am just yelling at the characters. In a movie I watched recently the characters "fell in love at first sight" and the second thing the guy said about the girl, besides the fact he had "fallen in love" was that she was "beautiful." Common people, it's right there. He loved her beauty, not her. Sure, he loved her for real once he actually knew her, but till then, he just doesn't know what he is talking about. And don't even get me started about Romeo and Juliet! What a crazy story. That whole thing, love, suicide, marriage, ect... happened in what, a total of three days?
Love is such a big crazy mess. It seems to hurt people as often as it makes them feel happy. It's something so many people wish for. It's an amazing feeling, I am sure we can all agree. I don't know if everyone has/is "in love" but I am sure you are loved. Family, friends, ect. There are different types of love. This paragraph is kind of obvious though, so I am going to move on.
With love comes relationships. With relationships comes drama, and other things. The sad thing is some people mix up love and sex. Or they think they have to have love to have sex. I don't see that opinion as a bad one, but some people think that because they are having sex, it's love. Wrong! I think people get hurt confusing these two things all the time. I think this is shown in TV shows all the time, because it really is dramatic. Showing drama like love and sex on TV shows is popular, which is kind of weird if you think about it. Why would we as a society want to watch things like that?
Another thing about love! It's in books, all the time! I have to say, this is something I am very used to. I love romance in books, and if a book doesn't have it, I can get bored easily. Don't forget I love fantasy, and good writing, and things that aren't just romance, but romance is so fun to read about! I like the drama of it, and the growing of relationships, the complications, and sorting out problems, ect. I do like a plot besides just romance, because it makes things interesting. With just romance it can go trashy or just plain uninteresting too easily. I know people that read pure romance novels, (my grandma is one of them... weird...), but they don't really interest me, as much. I still read one everyone once in awhile, but the gross parts are annoying sometimes. Too much detail, if you know what I mean? Some of them are just unbearable though. The Countess and her Lover. Oh, doesn't that sound like it will have a great plot? Let's do find out what will happen!
Two other points I want to talk about: jealousy and regret. Two different things, so let's organize, shall we?
Jealousy: I think that people are jealous often when love is concerned. I know that I have been jealous before! It's easy to love someone, or maybe in this case just 'like,' but not have them return your feelings. That's a really horrible feeling right? They like someone else, and that just annoys you. Jealousy can lead to bad things, and bad feelings! So that part just sucks. Someone else gets the love, and not you. Harsh. (Just to clarify, I have been jealous of people before. Don't think that neccsarily means in real life. Back when I was obsessed with Twilight I was really jealous of Bella. Hello, she gets Edward and Jacob? Not fair!)
Regret: This isn't exactly love. I think this is more of, you thought you were in love, but you weren't, and so now you regret doing the things you did when you thought you were in love. Still following me? Peachy! Basically, you regret things you did because of love, whether it was real or not. Now of course you are probably wondering if I regret anything, love/like related, and I do! But I don't really feel like giving the details out. I might regret that later! Maybe I should talk about secrets going hand in hand with love? Nah...
Anything else?
I think love is a complicated thing, and interests me, so therefor I will blog about it! I might blog about it soon, because this post was written on the spot without any planning. I could have missed something very important. I will leave you with a quote, and probably me talking about it, and one more short paragraph!
If you were interested while reading this blog, feel free to make a topic similar to it's topic "love and related things." I am sure you have your own opinions, agreements, disagreements, ideas to cover, ect! So feel free! A blog post would be just as fun to read as a comment, so you could always just comment. They are fun too!
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return."Well isn't that just a pretty quote? For those of you who are wondering, this is from the movie/musical, Moulin Rouge. A very good movie, with awesome music, musicians, actor and acteresses! I think the quote is really true, but the one thing I don't like about is that you can love some one, but you aren't always loved in return. So can you learn to be loved in return? I hope that everyone can be loved in return, including myself (because who isn't selfish when it comes to wanting love?), someday.
Word Count: 5863
Homework completed: ALL!
Shows watched: 2.
Studied: None :o
Finished?: Yup!
lol I've thought about writing a blog like this before. but now I'll feel as if I'm copying you, even with your permission to blog about it anyway. lol but I would still feel like that. Maybe sometime. Love is too big of an issue not to blog about one time or another. lol. although I do wish to say that I think any sex (if you're in love or just doing it) without being married to the person who you're doing it with is wrong. although, according to my sociology book, most ppl don't agree with me. You could have also touched up on the issue of cheating. Fantastic word count! You're right, it is long blog! Nice job! All the words, your hw and shows watched and the blog! that's great! =D
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